Addictive Thinking
how to knock it on the head

Addictive thinking can seriously harm you and those around you.

Addiction to thinking is the mother of all addictions, both literally and figuratively - literally in that it is by far the most common addiction, affecting prctically the entire population to some extent or other - and figuratively because it is arguably the root cause of all other addictions.   

Our addiction to food, alcohol, work, gadgets or the internet stems directly from our attempts to escape from, numb ourselves to or shut out the relentles chatter that goes on inside our heads.

If you are iny doubt that thinking can be an addiction then consider the following definition from The American heritage dictionary:

Addiction: the condition of being compulsively occupied with or involved in something.

Imagine you want to mow the lawn. You get the mower out of the shed and complete  the job. What do you do with the lawnmower after you are finished? You put it back in the shed, right?

Imagine if you were to go round in circles day in, day out, mowing the same patch of grass over and over. How tedious and exhausting – not to mention pointless – would that be?

And yet, this provides a good analogy to illustrate how most of our minds work.

We spend our days lost in  unconscious and unproductive thinking – addictively replaying the same mental patterns, the same old stories, over and over in our heads like worn-out gramophone records.

Rather than being a helpful tool to be picked up and used when required, the mind is more like an out of control Frankenstein monster with a life of its own. And we don’t know how to stop it. We don’t know how to pull the plug and put it back in the shed.

The Buddhists use the term monkey mind to describe this type of incessant mental chatter that can make lasting peace so difficult to achieve. 

Addictive thinking is the primary cause of suffering. If you are feeling unhappy or troubled, one thing is certain are thinking about something. Thinking and suffering are inseparable.

So how to stop thinking so much? How to knock addictive thinking on the head for good?

How to curb addictive thinking?

The first and most important step is to make unconscious thinking conscious - in other words, to take a step back and watch the mind in action.

When we are lost in thinking, we are unaware that thinking is happening. Through stepping back and observing the mind (as if you are watching a movie on the screen), you will see that there are two things going on. There are the thoughts and there is an awareness of the thoughts – a silent presence that is simply aware.

Good and bad thoughts come and go, pleasant and unpleasant feelings come and go and all of this is seen by an unchanging awareness that is always present. The presence that is aware of thoughts was there when you were a child and will be there on your death bed. This presence is always at peace.

You may wish to check out the mindful meditation page.

Each time we are conscious enough to step back and become the watcher of the mind rather than being caught up in the content of the mind, thinking automatically stops. You don't have to try to stop thinking. It just happens naturally. The act of becoming aware of the mind stops thinking in its tracks.

Being Present

Being mindful is being present. Addictive thinking pulls our attention into the past or future.

Our awareness can only be in one place at a time. You can either be thinking or you can be aware of now. Try it for yourself. Are you able to be aware of your surrounding and be thinking at the same time?

Here is a great exercise I like to use with my clients.

1. Think of a problem you have in your life. Spend a few moments thinking about it.

2. Now, put as much of your attention as you can on your left foot. Are you able to feel a pulse, a vibration, the life force moving in your foot?

3. Listen closely to any sounds you can hear around you. Spend a few moments listening intently.

4. What happens to your problems when you are intensely aware of the present moment?


I have written a 157 page e-book Kick The Thinking Habit which  explores in detail the topic of addictive thinking and how to be free of it.

It reveals  how  changing our relationship with the mind  can help anyone achieve peace WITH mind ... regardless of how  troublesome the mind appears to be.

Related Pages:

How To Stop Thinking   /   Monkey Mind    /  Obsessive Thinking

Mind Over Mood   /  Mindful Meditation   /  What You Resist Persists

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